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50 Weird Questions I Have Been Asked as a Gay Asian

 As a gay Asian person, I have been asked some strange and downright offensive questions over the years. While some people genuinely want to learn more about my experiences, others seem to revel in their own ignorance. To shed some light on the types of questions that I have been asked, I have compiled a list of 50 of the weirdest questions that I have heard.


1. Do you only date other Asians? 2. How do you say "I love you" in Chinese? 3. Do you eat dogs? 4. Are you attracted to white people? 5. Can you do kung fu? 6. Have you ever been to a gay bar in Asia? 7. Do you have a small penis? 8. Do you have a girlfriend? 9. Are all Asians good at math? 10. Do you know karate? 11. Are you a ladyboy? 12. Do you speak Asian? 13. Are you Chinese or Japanese? 14. Do you like anime? 15. Have you ever been to a rice paddy? 16. Are you a bottom or a top? 17. Can you teach me how to use chopsticks? 18. Do you have a mail-order bride? 19. Do you know Bruce Lee? 20. Have you ever eaten a bug? 21. Do you like to wear women's clothing? 22. Are you a geisha? 23. Have you ever eaten sushi? 24. Do you have a lot of gay Asian friends? 25. Do you know any gay black people? 26. Are you into BDSM? 27. Do you have a small dick because you're Asian? 28. Do you know any martial arts? 29. Are you good at ping pong? 30. Have you ever been to a fortune teller? 31. Do you like spicy food because you're Asian? 32. Do you speak Asian or just Chinese? 33. Have you ever had a threesome with another Asian? 34. Do you prefer white men or Asian men? 35. Have you ever dated a white guy? 36. Do you like K-pop? 37. Do you have a hidden talent for math? 38. Are you good at drawing? 39. Do you have any siblings? 40. Do you like durian? 41. Do you know any Asian pop stars? 42. Have you ever eaten dim sum? 43. Are you a bottom because you're Asian? 44. Have you ever been to a Japanese hot spring? 45. Do you have any tattoos? 46. Have you ever been to a Buddhist temple? 47. Do you know any Asian celebrities? 48. Have you ever eaten balut? 49. Are you good at video games? 50. Do you like bubble tea? While some of these questions may seem harmless or even well-intentioned, they can still be hurtful and contribute to harmful stereotypes. As a society, we need to do better at educating ourselves about different cultures and experiences, rather than relying on offensive and ignorant assumptions.
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